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Non Court Dispute Resolution

Settling disputes without going to court

non court dispute resolution

Selby Lowndes offers assistance to couples who are seeking to resolve their financial, property or children arrangements without resorting to court proceedings which can be very expensive, uncertain, and stressful. There are now a number of alternatives to court proceedings which are set out in detail below.

We are committed to prioritising these approaches whenever possible as they are usually cheaper for clients and can help reduce conflict between separating couples.

It is also now compulsory to have attempted some form of non-court dispute resolution (NCDR) before court proceedings are issued in relation to arrangements for children or the division of property and money (with some exceptions, such as domestic abuse cases), so it is important to consider your options carefully, and we can help you do this. For more information, click on the options below:

The type of dispute resolution you use will depend on whether you want to negotiate directly with your ex-spouse, or you need a lawyer to help you resolve your dispute.

What type of dispute resolution should I use?

The following options, or combinations of these options may be suitable for you:

Solicitor Negotiations

If you don’t feel able to engage directly with your spouse or partner then we can do this for you. We aim to work constructively and proactively with your former partner or their solicitors in order to achieve a settlement that works for you. We will always try and speak to the other solicitors/parties where possible, either on the telephone, or using round table meetings, rather than resort to inflammatory ‘tit for tat’ correspondence which does not help cases to settle. We believe it is important to have good, constructive relationships with other solicitors which in turn helps keep your costs down. We will deal with all the exchange of financial information that is necessary, and advise you about how to make offers to settle your case.

Collaborative Law

If you would like to be involved in direct negotiations with the support and assistance of a solicitor, then collaborative law may be suitable for you. How it works is that both parties have their own lawyer, and negotiations take place using round table meetings with both parties and their lawyers (and often other professionals such as accountants and financial advisors). There is minimal written correspondence which can often raise the temperature in family cases. This way of working encourages a non-adversarial approach, but clients feel supported with a lawyer by their side. There is an incentive for all parties, including solicitors, to reach a financial settlement, because if negotiations break down then clients have to find alternative legal representation if they want to start court proceedings.

As part of the negotiation process your lawyer may suggest you use the following:

Early Neutral Evaluation (ENE)

In cases involving your joint finances, ENE may be appropriate where you and your ex-partner have reached an impasse in your negotiations and some independent input could help you to find a way forward. You and your ex-partner choose an evaluator, usually a specialist family lawyer, to read through the relevant papers in your case and provide an evaluation of what the likely outcome would be, were you to issue court proceedings. This impartial steer could help you to reach an agreement and avoid costly court proceedings.

Private Financial Dispute Resolution (pFDR)

This is an alternative to a court hearing. You both appoint a private FDR ‘judge’, usually a specialist family barrister or solicitor, to evaluate the issues in your case and provide an independent indication on a fair financial settlement. Usually there is a ‘hearing’ before the judge when both parties, through their lawyers explain what they think a fair outcome should be; this mirrors what happens at the family court: the judge cannot decide your case but they will give you a strong steer which can help you to reach a negotiated agreement. The private FDR can last all day if necessary, and the advantage over the family court process is that judge has the time, and expertise, to devote themselves entirely to your case, rather than having to deal with other cases at the same time. It is therefore a particularly suitable approach for more complex cases.

The success rate of private FDRs is high, and settlements are usually reached at this stage.

Resolution Together (one lawyer 2 clients)

This is a new and innovative way for both parties to work together, with one lawyer (rather than having their own), to reach a financial settlement and/or an agreement about arrangements for the children. Although the process can be similar to mediation, particularly if you need some help in reaching agreement, the difference is that the lawyer can give both parties legal advice, and can also deal with the necessary paperwork if agreement is reached, such as filing a consent order, or drafting a nuptial, co-habitation, or separation agreement.

This way of working has been shown to significantly reduce the conflict, or potential for conflict between parties, and therefore reduce both the emotional and financial cost of separation.

Jane Aizlewood can offer this service, and has attended the required Resolution training to enable her to do this.

Hybrid Mediation

Hybrid mediation is an extension of the mediation process where the mediator can bring in other professionals to assist with resolving the dispute, such as financial advisors or their lawyers.

Where we already act for you then we can look at whether hybrid mediation is appropriate for your case and discuss this option with you.

Mediation

Mediation is an alternative to going to court or engaging lawyers to resolve your dispute. Mediation is a voluntary process and the mediator is entirely neutral. The mediator will facilitate the discussions and negotiations between you, help you understand the other party’s point of view, and guide you towards reaching an agreement about the division of your finances or arrangements for your children.

If successful, mediation is significantly cheaper than other ways of resolving disputes, and avoids having a decision imposed upon you by a judge or arbitrator. Mediation can take place in the same room, or in separate rooms (shuttle mediation), and can even be conducted remotely.

It is important to note that the mediator does not have power to make a legal decision or give you legal advice.

We can conduct mediations at Selby Lowndes Solicitors. Jane Aizlewood is a trained mediator.

Please note we cannot provide you with both mediation and legal advice. We will discuss and establish with you from the outset whether you want to engage us as your mediator or your lawyer.

If you choose to engage us as your solicitors, then if you wish to engage in mediation we can advise you on an appropriate external mediator that we feel would be most suitable for your case, and we can also provide you with expert legal advice throughout the mediation process so that you feel supported, and have the necessary legal knowledge to help you make your decisions.

Arbitration

If you and your ex-partner cannot reach an agreement about dividing your property, arrangements for your children or you are just stuck on one or two final points, you can appoint a family arbitrator to decide for you instead of applying to the court. The arbitrator’s decision is binding on both of you.

Arbitration is more flexible than court proceedings as you can agree the timetable and how things will be dealt with. It also guarantees a faster conclusion than court proceedings, so it can save you time and money in the long run.

We offer arbitration at Selby Lowndes. William Selby-Lowndes is a trained arbitrator.

Whether you choose to use Selby Lowndes or an alternative arbitrator, we can discuss all the options with you, and help you make the best decision for your particular circumstances.

If you choose an outside arbitrator we can still support and assist you throughout the process and provide you with expert legal advice.

Please note: we cannot provide you with both arbitration and legal advice.

What happens when I have reached an agreement about dividing my money and property on divorce/dissolution?

However you agree to divide your money and property, it is important to have any agreement drafted into a legally binding financial remedy order (consent order), which we at Selby Lowndes Solicitors can assist you with. This document is important for many reasons including:

  • you can ensure that neither party can make any further financial claims against the other
  • you can achieve a pension share order ensuring financial security in retirement
  • there is clarity and certainty about the financial agreements
  • the order is legally binding, and if one party does not comply with it, for example stops paying maintenance or does not make a required lump sum payment, then the order can be enforced by the court. See enforcement of orders

What happens when I have reached an agreement about the arrangements for my children?

Although not essential you may want to have your agreement formally drawn up by solicitors – this is known as a parenting agreement; or you may want to have that agreement formalised by the court so that it can be enforced if one party fails to comply with it. This is known as a child arrangements (consent) order. We can draft the consent order for you and make the appropriate application to the court on your behalf if this is what you require. See Arrangements for Children

Highlights

Settled a long-running and highly acrimonious multi-million pound case at a 2-day Private FDR. This resulted in significant costs savings for both clients, and a highly bespoke approach to the case which would not have been possible had the parties been in court proceedings.

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